"The red" the hero's name is in even, her first lover is Mrs DE rainer, a second lover is miss mathilde. Theory of status, the identity of the two harmonized appearances of people was significantly higher than him. So, one of my friends is so describe "the red" to me, this is a story of men against women climb.

　　I don't think Yu Lianyou love, at least until the end, is never seen, the existence of love is a kind of noble, some people say that love is to protect a person, with the standards, obviously, the two affairs cannot be counted as love. Rainer lady fell in love with in the original, but to even want from Mrs DE rainer, just a kind of identity, status to improve the satisfaction and to conquer a better than they are objects of desire, and this is a period of an affair, so even if reluctantly said, at last the moment he sank in madame DE rainer of love, but because of the wrong start, so finally it's hard to die well. Besides, he should because Mrs Think DE rainer damaged his and miss mathilde better future, just want to kill DE rainer, madam, it is conceivable that he just want to from beginning to end his own ambitions, not really into the love. For miss mathilde, he wanted to be with miss mathilde is completely was swept away by mathilde external initial originates from one kind of flesh, then mood, a kind of the more can't get more want to torture him. Mathilde had just put in even as a fantasy, mathilde hopes to repeat her worship of a romance, it is not love, at last she kissed in the death of the man's head, also be realize her wish.

　　I don't like the story of the red, only to see the truth in this story is that Mrs DE rainer for even the relationships we have, but because Mrs DE rainer's identity, have never been in love, so when she hadn't really learn to analysis, fell in love with to connect. Of course, have to say, if after you fall in love with is analyzed, can be rational to treat may, it is not pure love.

　　To even this ambition to insist, perhaps many also struggle at the grassroots level, we not rich "relationship", part of the worth learning. But his selfishness, the excess and lost "sincere" that, absolutely is that we should abandon the part. We should learn to use the right way to realize their dreams.

　　《红与黑》的男主人公叫于连，她的第一个情人是德莱纳夫人，第二个情人是马蒂尔德小姐。论身份地位来说，两任情人的身份都远远高于他。所以，我一个朋友是这样对我描述《红与黑》的，这就是一个男人靠着女人往上爬的故事。

　　我不认为于连有过爱情，至少直到结尾，也不曾见到过，爱情是一种高贵的存在，有人说，爱情是去守护一个人，用这个标准来说，显然，那两段情史都不能算作爱情。德莱纳夫人爱上了于连原本的样子，可是于连从德莱纳夫人身上想得到的只是一种身份，地位提高的满足感和征服一个比自己强的对象的征服欲，而且这是一段婚外情，所以哪怕勉强地说，最后那一刻他沉入了对德莱纳夫人的爱情，但是因为错误的开始，所以最后很难善终。况且，他竟然因为认为德莱纳夫人破坏了他和马蒂尔德小姐美好的未来，就想要杀了德莱纳夫人，可想而知，他从头到尾只想着自己的野心，并没有真正的投入到爱情中去。对于马蒂尔德小姐，他之所以想和马蒂尔德小姐在一起完全是被马蒂尔德的外在迷住了，初始来源于一种肉欲，后来一种越是得不到越想要的心情，狠狠地折磨了他。马蒂尔德只是把于连当作了一种幻想，马蒂尔德希望重复她崇拜的一段浪漫史，那也不是爱情，最后她亲吻了于连的死人头，也算是实现了她的愿望吧。

　　我不喜欢红与黑的故事，这个故事里唯一看到真情的就是，德莱纳夫人对于连的那份感情，可是由于德莱纳夫人的身份，还有从来没有陷入过爱情中，所以在她还没有真正的学会分析人的时候，就爱上了于连。当然，不得不说，如果分析了之后再爱上，能够被那么理智的对待的也许就不是纯真的爱情了。

　　于连这种对于野心的坚持，也许是不少还奋斗在基层，没有有钱人家的“关系”的我们，值得学习的一部分。但是他这种过度的自私，还有失去了“真心”这一点，绝对是我们应该摒弃的部分。我们应该学会用正确的方式实现自己的梦想。