love, friendship, respect, do not unite people as much as a common hatred for something. ---chekhov

　　爱情，友谊和尊敬都不如对某事物的共同的恨那样能把人们团结起来。

　　-----契可夫

　　if you'd be loved, be worthy to be loved. ----ovid

　　要得到别人的爱，就必须要有值得爱的地方。

　　---奥维德

　　human nature is so constructed that it gives affection most readily to those who seem least to demand it. ------bertrand russell

　　人的天性就是如此，他最乐意将爱给予那些似乎最不强求爱的人。

　　-----罗素

　　when we lose one we love, our bitterest tears are called for by the memory of hours when we loved not enough. -----maurice maeterlinck

　　当失去心爱的人时，我们抛洒悲苦的眼泪，那是因为我们想起了过去没有好好的深爱他们。

　　----莫里斯。梅特林克

　　love is an active power in man, a power which breaks through the walls which separate man from his fellow men which unites him with others; love makes him overcome the sense of isolation and separateness, yet it ermits to be himself, to retain his integrity. ----erich fromm

　　爱是活跃于人心中的一种力量，它冲破人与人之间的隔阂，是我们紧紧相连；它使我们战胜孤独无助，但仍使我们保持自我个性的独立完整。

　　----埃里克。拂洛姆

　　love is an endless mystery, fot it has nothing else to explain it. -----tagore

　　爱是一个无穷无尽的迷，因为没有任何其他东西能够解释它。

　　----泰戈尔

　　love lives in cottages as well as in courts. ----george herbert

　　爱在茅屋，亦在深宫。

　　----乔治。赫伯特

　　marriage is like life in this --that it is field of battle ,and not a bed of roses.------robert stevenson

　　婚姻生活---乃战场而玫瑰花朵。-----罗伯特。史蒂文森